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Month: November 2019

How to (Not) Become an American

This is the title of a short non-fiction book – half memoir, half sarcastic essay collection – I have been writing in my head for years. I have played with the idea to materialize those words, as the actual story unfolded with ups and hiccups and downs and betters, not quite knowing whether the “Not” would become most prominent in the title, or not. You see, this entire “becoming an American” process is not as easy as three words. At least for me. More about that later.

The Capitol in Washington DC

Most of you might know by now that I was born and raised and “supposed to be based” in Belgium. Something happened. Obviously. Yet, nothing drastic or planned or expected. I’ve traveled my entire life – solo or not – so being adventurous, curious, and a tad rebellious is part of my genes. I was a school teacher, meaning vacations abound (especially in the summer) to explore and travel. No issue there; definitely the right job choice for my passion. Yet, my inquisitive mind and restless soul wanted more.

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5 North Shore Destinations within 1 Hour from Boston (or Newburyport)

After my parents met Mark, Maya, and me in Quebec City and explored a chunk of Maine with us in Zesty, we all settled in the home of my in-laws in Newburyport, Massachusetts for the last week of their US vacation. Mark and I happily offered up “our” room above the garage and moved into another guest room of what we fondly call “our home base”. It has, in fact, been both Mark’s and my official residency for over a decade. The area is full of treasures.

My favorite photo op in Rockport

1. Newburyport

I was delighted to have my parents visit us in my “second home”. I’ve grown fond of this seaside town over the years and couldn’t wait to finally show them why. Having visitors around turns us into tourists and helps us appreciate the beautiful surroundings we have grown accustomed to.

Newburyport has a wonderful waterfront area and boardwalk along the Merrimack River, two rail trails to walk and bike on, an attractive downtown, outdoor art displays, and many historic buildings. It’s a joy to take Maya for long walks. There are museums, heaps of restaurants and bars, and the necessary antique shops, typical for North Shore villages.

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Volunteering at the Biggest No-kill Animal Sanctuary in the US – Guest Post on “Do More Be More”

I am honored to have been invited by Gabby from the travel blog Do More Be More to contribute a guest post about Best Friends Animal Sanctuary in Utah. As a fellow traveler, photographer, and dog lover, she was curious about our lifestyle and interested in our volunteering experiences. 

Gabby lives in beautiful and diverse Australia and has an adorable bulldog. In 2010, she hooked up with the Bali Animal Welfare Association to photograph and fund raise for the street dogs of Bali, Indonesia. She believes that many small acts by conscientious travelers can change the landscape of tourism for the future – and for the better – and is always on the lookout for ways we travelers can give back to the world we enjoy so much.

Comments are closed here, but feel free to share your thoughts on Gabby’s blog.

Volunteering at the Biggest No-kill Animal Sanctuary in the US: Best Friends in Utah

As the fur-less mum of an old lady bulldog and a supporter of street dog welfare in Bali, I was excited to talk to Liesbet Collaert, a fellow animal lover, about her experience volunteering at Best Friends in Utah.

I know from first hand experience that volunteers at any animal welfare organisation is hugely appreciated. There is never enough funding and there is always too much to do. Every spare hand is another step closer to better health or permanent homes for the dogs, cats and everything in between.

The best thing about volunteering, is that anyone can do it! You don’t need a qualification in most cases, just a big heart.

This was Liesbet’s first volunteering opportunity, one very close to her own heart.


Liesbet tell us a little about yourself and your travels.

I was born in Belgium with an oversized portion of wanderlust. Yearly family vacations to the Med didn’t satisfy my sense for adventure, so, at 16, I hitchhiked to Italy with a boyfriend.

In college, I traveled across Europe during holidays and avoided culture shock on a five-week trip to India. After graduation, I grabbed my backpack and explored Southeast Asia with friends for about a year. Two years later I headed back to SE Asia with a hop-over to New Zealand and Australia.

Then, I taught at the same school in Belgium once more, for two years, before I flew across the Atlantic Ocean for an open-ended journey in an RV with my then American boyfriend. I’d met him Down Under. Fate has a funny way, as I never moved back to Belgium after our 18-month-long travels throughout the lower 48, Canada, and Alaska.

Instead, I met another guy, obtained another truck camper, and adventured throughout Mexico and Central America with him and his two rescue dogs. This was preceded by a failed sailing attempt of ten months and followed by a two-month stint in a tent and a Toyota Tacoma. In 2007, we bought a 35ft sailing catamaran in Maryland and cruised down to Florida, before crossing the Gulf Stream to the Bahamas. The idea was to return in a year, but, eight years later, we found ourselves in Tahiti, in the Pacific Ocean.

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Monthly Expenses – October 2019

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Every month, I post a report of our expenses to show that it is possible to live a comfortable, exciting, and adventurous life without breaking the bank. The less money you spend, the less you need to make. 🙂

This report includes ALL of our expenses, in US$, for the two of us. Under groceries we incorporate food, produce, and non-alcoholic drinks predominantly bought in supermarkets. Toiletries belong in that category as well. Dining out means eating at a restaurant/event or purchasing take-out food. Since June 2019 – we adopted Maya on June 4th – we have a dog section as well. The health category covers non-prescription medicines and vitamins/supplements; medical contains prescription drugs and doctor’s visits. Because of our income level, Mark and I are eligible for free health care within the state of Massachusetts. For check-ups, we both return to the East Coast.

For most of October, Mark, Maya, and I were based at my in-laws in Newburyport, Massachusetts; the first week with my parents. From the moment they returned to Belgium, Mark and I got busy with camper projects. They were many and they were expensive. Some of you might remember the ordeal we had with our windshield in Santa Fe in the spring of 2018.  Well, that nightmare lasted for over a year, as we soon noticed new and reoccurring rust spots as a result of a job poorly done by Extreme Twist.

We tried everything short of a lawsuit to get our money back – emails, photos, Better Business Bureau, Attorney General of New Mexico. After heaps of time, frustration, and determination (and the issue becoming even worse), the company finally reimbursed us the US$1,100. Unfortunately, that was not enough to get the body work redone and the windshield replaced in Massachusetts. Without the new windshield, which was covered by our insurance, the body work there cost U$1,500, so we spent an extra $400.

Another biggie was the side window project. The purchase of a new window was already accounted for in a previous month (the people at Extreme Twist were responsible for damaging the old window – and other things on our camper) and we planned to install it ourselves, like everything else… But, the project proved much more difficult than expected, making this our first failure. I’ll spare you the details, but it was a stressful time, especially as a rain storm was to arrive that night and we had a huge hole in the side of Zesty! It took the window specialists three hours and three bulky men to accomplish the job. $165 well spent!

Mark did all the rest of the maintenance himself: replace the brake fluid, another oil change, remove and clean the RV heater, and replace a glow plug and a few other things in the engine.

Our other costly “item” last month was Maya. After continued itchiness and trying whatever we could to determine the cause, we took her to the vet, who prescribed antibiotics for her healing wounds and Apoquel, a wonder drug for itchy dog skin. It did a great job for two weeks, but is now wearing off.  A big bummer. We also compared and tested two GPS tracker systems for her and decided to keep the Whistle. We’ve had a lot going on and our expenses reflect it.

October 2019 Overview:

Camper (rep.: $816; fuel: $131; reg.: $50; tolls: $40; park.: $8):

Dog (vet: $284; supplies: $235):

Groceries:

Clothing (3 pairs of jeans):

Dining out:

Utilities (phone & Skype):

Medical (co-pay scan):

Alcohol:

Gifts:

Household (electric heater):

Computer (hosting fees):

Camping:

 

TOTAL:

 

$1044

$519

$196

$67

$42

$40

$37

$34

$34

$30

$18

$0

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$ 2061

IWSG Writing Update November 2019 – “Slush” Pile of Work

Every first Wednesday of the month, the IWSG (Insecure Writer’s Support Group) engages writers to share their fears, thoughts, progress, struggles, excitement, encouragement, or anything really, about their writing. A different question is posed each month as a writing prompt. Answering it is optional. For November, the question is: “What’s the strangest thing you’ve ever googled in researching a story?”

This amazing, supportive group of writers was founded by Alex J. Cavanaugh. Today, the co-hosts are Sadira Stone, Patricia Josephine, Lisa Buie-Collard, Erika Beebe, and C. Lee McKenzie. Feel free to swing by their sites!

My answer to the question

As a non-fiction writer who mostly shares personal experiences, my research is quite boring and usually involves fact checking, consulting my diary, or searching for photos in my archives to get a better picture – Do I have that location correct? Is this name spelled right? How long was that distance again?

I imagine fiction writers have much more exciting answers, so I’m looking forward to reading about their strange Google results. It should be fun!

My book progress

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Snapshots from Maine – Indian Summer at the Coast

In my previous post, I showed why Quebec City was the perfect place for my parents to join us; it is the most beautiful city of Canada. After a few days of sightseeing, we left the city and the country. Instead of driving all the way to the coast of Maine, we decided to split that long journey up by stopping about halfway, in Kingfield. This is the town where our friends Jen and Mark have a second home. They generously let us stay there – again – to charge our batteries.

Kingfield

Of all the places to get rained on, this was the most favorable, as we planned to relax for most of the day. Luckily, we managed to go on a short walk to the hidden waterfalls and on another one to the river. Fall had arrived, but the weather remained comfortable.

Bar Harbor

This cute town on Desert Island is the gateway to Acadia National Park. I didn’t find a hotel for all four of us (and Maya), but the affordable place we booked for my parents (fall special at US$120 a night), was located in the center of Bar Harbor, in walking distance to everything. The room came with an adjacent parking spot, so Mark, Maya, and I managed to sleep in our camper, low-key.

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